Fatherly rough-and-tumble play has many developmental benefits for children, particularly boys. Research shows that physical engagement–like wrestling, roughhousing (when not carried to an extreme) and warm, playful interaction–helps boys learn to regulate and control their behavior, deal with a range of emotions, and adapt to a variety of situations.

James Herzog and other researchers found that a father’s playful and vigorous interactions force a boy to closely observe his father’s facial expressions and body language to figure out his father’s moods. A dad’s play can help his son learn how to become a good manager of emotions. When, in a loving environment, a father coaxes his son to cope with interactions that will test his limits and stretch him emotionally, the boy will develop confidence to handle similar tests in challenging environments.

Through this kind of play–starting early in life–your kids learn some of their first lessons about loving authority. According to authors Jim and Charles Fay, roughhousing teaches your kids that you love them, that you’re strong enough to control them, and that you won’t control them unless it’s necessary. Your kids learn that you’re powerful, and kind and gentle at the same time…

Source: Parents & Kids
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