By kindergarten, most children have outgrown shyness, but about 15 percent of children have a shy temperament, which may remain a part of their personality. At your daughter’s age, it remains to be seen whether this is a developmental stage or an inborn trait, but, either way, there are things you can do to help.

First, do not make the mistake of openly referring to her as shy, as this label can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. If she seems nervous when meeting new people, make comments that are supportive and give her some sense of control.” …

Truly shy children often have shy parents. If you consider yourself on the shy side, try to push yourself to act more relaxed in social situations. Your child is always learning from you, and this “fake it till you make it” approach may gradually help both you and your daughter feel more socially at ease.

Source: Indianapolis Star
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